The Ugly Truth of Divorce

Everybody preps you for court. Nobody preps you for the regular Tuesday, when the handoff goes sideways, your kid repeats something they should never have heard, and you've got nobody to call who's lived it.

I've got a rule about who I learn from. I'm not going to learn scuba diving from somebody who's never been underwater. This room is full of people who've been underwater.

Samantha Boss sitting cross-legged on a blanket outdoors, writing in a notebook and smiling at the camera

One Room for Moms, One Room for Dads

They're separate and private, because I know you want to feel free to be vulnerable and share your concerns, wins, thoughts and strategy without worrying about your ex. Same coaching, same standard, and a weekly call with me in each room.

  • For moms

    You don't have to explain the whole backstory before you ask the question. Everybody in there already gets it.

    See the Community for Moms
  • For dads

    I know. Most men don't think they need a community. You get your own room and nobody watching. Come anyway.

    See the Community for Dads

What's Inside

  • Weekly live coaching with me. Bring the real situation and get a straight answer, with replays for the bad weeks
  • On-demand lessons on what keeps coming back: holidays, handoffs, texts that get used against you, and being your ex's secretary
  • Somewhere to ask the question that can't wait for your next attorney appointment, without paying an hourly rate for it
  • Specialists I bring in to share their expertise on the things you're dealing with

What This Looks Like on a Regular Week

  • Sunday night

    It's Sunday night and the handoff went sideways again. You post about it in your private community and somebody's already replied before you've finished your wine. Nobody asks you to explain the backstory, because they've lived it.

  • Monday

    On Monday you hop on a live group coaching call with me. You bring the actual text your ex sent, and we figure out what you say back, or whether you say anything at all. Can't make it? The replay's waiting.

  • Thursday, 11pm

    Then at 11pm on a Thursday, when your brain won't shut off, the lesson on exactly that thing is already there.

Some people in here are still in the middle of it. Some are five years out. And some just found out their plan was written badly and they're done fighting about the same sentence.

Who It's For

Moms and dads at every stage, whether you're thinking about it, in the thick of it, or five years out and still arguing over the same sentence.

Included With the Plan

A full year comes free with the Gold Standard Plan, plus a bonus coaching call every month just for plan clients.

Which room is yours?

Moms and dads each have their own private community.

The Ugly Truth of Divorce

Nobody Warns You

About the Tuesday

Not the court date. Not the filing. The ordinary Tuesday where a handoff goes wrong, your child says something they shouldn't know,
and you have nobody to ask who actually gets it.

That's what this is for.

WHAT’S INSIDE

What you get

01

Weekly live coaching with Samantha.

Bring the actual situation, get an actual answer

02

Replays of every call

so a hard week doesn't put you behind

03

On-demand lessons

on what keeps coming back: handoffs, holidays, communication that gets used against you, a co-parent who goes quiet, a child caught in the middleBullet List 4

04

Somewhere to ask the question

that can't wait for your next attorney appointment, and won't cost you an hourly rate

That's a plan problem. No amount of talking it out fixes a sentence that was never finished, and your kids are the ones who pay for it.

Know better, do better

Strategic and educational only. Does not constitute legal advice.