The Gold Standard Parenting Plan

You’re not crazy for wanting it in writing.

And you’re not asking for too much.

The real problem is a vague parenting plan, and your ex will know exactly how to use that to their advantage.

  • Vague shows up when the school-pickup time changes by text an hour before.
  • Vague shows up when the plan says “alternate holidays” and nobody knows whose year it is.
  • Vague shows up every single time you have to ask your ex what time works.
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$2,497First draft in 10 to 15 business daysKlarna & Afterpay accepted

Here’s the deal.

Reasonable is not a plan.

The Gold Standard Parenting Plan is a protective plan my team builds around your kids, your schedule and the ex you actually have. Custom to your life, written in plain common sense.

Schedules, holidays, expenses and transitions all get written down in plain words.

Because if it’s not written down… it’s an argument later.

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Need it faster? Priority gets your first draft in 4 business days

If your ex can argue about it, it goes in writing.

You come in with

a plan that says “reasonable,” a phone full of texts and a pit in your stomach.

You leave with

a plan you can actually open and use the day your ex goes rogue.

I know you’ve already spent more on this divorce than you ever wanted to. That’s exactly why we get it right the first time, so you’re not paying to fix it later.

Put It in Writing

Everything you get for $2,497

and what you walk away knowing

  • Your custom parenting plan

    Built from real high-conflict scenarios. We write it for your ex’s bad days, because those are the days you’ll need it.

    You leave knowing:

    It’s in writing, so I’m done asking permission.

  • Two rounds of revisions

    You read it, tell us what’s missing, and we fix it.

    You leave knowing:

    Nothing in here is going to blindside me two months from now.

  • Your one-page summary

    Everything you want, on one clean page you hand straight to your lawyer.

    You leave knowing:

    My attorney knows I know what the hell I’m talking about.

  • The video library

    Right of first refusal and the other topics nobody explained to you, plus the full Parenting Plan Masterclass.

    You leave knowing:

    I understand what I’m signing and why every line is there.

  • The Prep Series course

    Court, mediation and evaluation prep videos so you walk in confident.

    You leave knowing:

    I know what’s coming before I walk in that room.

  • The Parental Alienation course

    Clear strategies to recognize and address alienating behaviors.

    You leave knowing:

    I can spot it early, and I know my next move.

  • and after the plan is done

    One year inside The Ugly Truth of Divorce Community

    Annual membership access so you’re not doing this alone after the plan is done.

    You leave knowing:

    I’ve got a place to go when the next motion hits.

All seven are included in the $2,497 Gold Standard Parenting Plan.

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Your kids’ schedule shouldn’t depend on your ex’s mood.

(If you’re tired of asking, keep reading…)

With a vague plan

  • You text to ask what time works, then you wait.
  • You get called controlling for asking.
  • “Alternate holidays” turns into a fight every single year.

With it in writing

Your ex calls with

“Hey, last minute, I need a change.”

And you get to say,

“I’m following the holiday schedule on page seven.”

You have a backbone because you have a good holiday schedule.

High-conflict people love gray areas. So we don’t leave any.

Finally get it in writing.

I Want Mine in Writing

This is built for the parent who’s been called “too much”

You’re vacuuming the living room, or sitting at work minding your own business, and it hits you again.

Am I the problem? Am I being unreasonable?

Your attorney told you you’re controlling and over the top and wanting too much. Your ex says you’re impossible.

Some nights it feels easier to just say you’re the problem than to keep arguing that you’re not.

So you run everything through your ex’s filter.

If you do a 7:30 bedtime and your ex does 7:00, you worry you’ll be deemed the bad parent. Five minutes late turns into a whole thing. So does the wrong packed lunch.

You’re not even trying to be a good parent anymore. You’re trying to remove the label of bad.

Meanwhile, your attorney threw you into the deep sea. Every once in a while they drive the rescue boat by to make sure you’re still above water… so you can keep paying.

And you’re just searching for a life vest.

Here’s the deal. You just found it.

Wanting it in writing is how you protect your kids.

I’m Done Asking Permission
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10 years. 5,000+ plans. Every one for the ex you actually have.

Meet your parenting plan expert, Samantha Boss

I’ve been exactly where you are.

I spent 8 years in the court system. First the divorce, then the custody battle, then motion after motion. One trial alone was 8 days with 40 witnesses.

I walked out with 50/50 and a parenting plan that said we had to keep talking and working together. We hadn’t talked and worked together yet. It was built for people that get along.

Everybody told me, “Once the ink is dry, it’ll get better.” It didn’t.

That vague plan was my ex’s playground. I was in constant contact, always asking permission, always asking what time worked.

We didn’t celebrate Easter that year.

My plan said “alternating holidays.”

It never said who had which year. It never said what time it started. So my ex kept the kids.

When there’s nothing in writing… it didn’t happen.

I went back to court over it and lost another Easter. That’s why I do this.

I started by helping friends and family while I was still in court. 10 years and 5,000+ plans later, my team and I write every plan for the ex you actually have, with all the hindsight I wish I’d had.

I’m direct. You might not like what I tell you today. But 3 years from now you’re gonna go,

“Oh, THAT’S what Sam meant.”

Build My Plan With Sam’s Team

Pick your speed

Every parent deserves a Gold Standard plan. The only question is how fast you need it.

The Gold Standard Parenting Plan

$2,497

For when your calendar can wait a couple of weeks.

Your first draft lands within 10 to 15 business days.

  • Your custom plan
  • 2 rounds of revisions
  • Your One-Page Summary
  • The Video Library with the Parenting Plan Masterclass
  • The Prep Series Course
  • The Parental Alienation Course
  • One year inside The Ugly Truth of Divorce Community

Klarna & Afterpay accepted. For qualified users, payment options extend up to 24 months.

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Priority Gold Standard Parenting Plan

$2,997

The exact same plan, in your hands faster.

Your first draft lands in 4 business days.

People think Priority comes on gold paper with a little bow on top. Nope. Same plan, same team, same level of detail.

Priority is for you if:

  • Mediation is coming up and you don’t want to walk in empty-handed
  • Something changed in your case and your plan doesn’t fit your life anymore
  • You have a court date coming and need to send over a final proposal

And my favorite Priority clients? The ones who get it done before they even interview an attorney.

The attorney asks, “So what are you hoping for?” They slide the plan across the desk and say,

“This.”

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Still have questions?

Is this legal advice?

No. This is strategic and educational. My team builds your plan with you, and your One-Page Summary goes to your lawyer. Your attorney is still your attorney.

My attorney already drafted one.

Great. Let me see what you’re producing, Larry. Let’s put them side by side.

If yours says “reasonable” anywhere, you already know what I’m going to say.

My ex will never agree to specifics.

Then why are you asking your ex? When have they ever given you what you wanted?

Negotiating is your attorney’s job. Your job is to know exactly what you’re asking for, in writing.

My kids aren’t that age yet. Do I really need to plan for that?

“Your kids aren’t that age yet. Don’t put that down.” That’s some of the worst advice I hear.

They will be that age. And your ex is gonna go rogue on bedtimes, iPads and sleepovers.

Write it down now while you’re the one holding the pen.

Will this plan fix my ex?

No plan is a cure-all that makes an insane person sane. You’re already going to have chaos no matter what your plan says.

This plan is your protection.

Will my plan be in place before the holidays?

I can’t promise that, and I won’t. A first draft is a draft. When a plan gets signed and in place depends on your case and your court.

What I can promise is that the sooner you start, the sooner it’s on paper.

Is there a payment plan?

Yes. We accept Klarna & Afterpay. For qualified users, payment options extend up to 24 months.

How fast do I get it?

You start with a guided questionnaire so nothing important gets missed.

Gold Standard: your first draft within 10 to 15 business days. Priority: your first draft in 4 business days.

Then we refine it with you through 2 rounds of revisions until there are no gray areas or gaps, and you walk away with your finalized plan.

What if I change my mind?

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My son was 9 when he called me out.

I was coaching my kids to stand up, speak their minds and never cower.

He looked right at me and said,

“But you don’t.”

I wanted to peel my skin off. Because he was a hundred percent right.

I was big and confident at work. I dominated coaching basketball. When it came to my ex, I cowered like a little sheep in the corner.

And my kids had a front row seat the whole time.

Your kids are watching you too.

Let them watch you put it in writing.

Protect My Kids in Writing

$2,497, first draft in 10 to 15 business daysPriority $2,997, first draft in 4 business daysKlarna & Afterpay accepted

Know Better. Do Better.

Strategic and educational only. Does not constitute legal advice.